The fifth way  It is acceptable to use physical self defense when a person has taken hold of you in any way. You should always try to runaway before this happens. Self defense should be used as a last resort when you have tried every other way to get out of danger. Self defense is not a game. Be careful never to use too much force or you will be the one who gets into trouble. You now have the option to discuss this topic, repeat this information or click to continue.